While it is true that finding the right guy for you is a very difficult thing to do, you should continue looking. There are many ways on how to spot the many guys in many occasions. No one really knows where you can find him and when.
Here are some tips you should consider doing if you are now eager to look for the man of your dreams.
Attend parties - The simplest way possible is to attend parties. You can choose what to attend from the invitations of your friends. It may either be a wedding, debut, birthday, prom or any party.
In the church - Going to church or hearing a regular mass or bible study. Who knows you can find the man of your dreams in the church. Many stories happened this way.
Chat in the net - If you have real time you can visit a computer shop and do some chatting. This is also a good venue to look for him. Your soulmate maybe in a distant lands and this is the way you can find him.
Do a vacation - You can also schedule a weekend vacation to the relatives in the province or in other cities. This is also an ideal thing to do if you wish to find him the soonest possible time and get settled.
Looking for the man of your dreams won't really happen if you don't exert efforts. This is your responsibility and not from others to do it.